Is your brain older than you are?
You’re striving to stay on top of your career, managing complex decisions, coming up with creative solutions, and working with younger colleagues whose brains process information quickly. You want to maintain your edge in the workplace, keeping pace with the flow of ideas that sustain and drive forward your business.
At the same time, you’re working to secure your retirement. You’ve put money away. You’ve taken relatively good care of yourself. You’ve paid off your mortgage. In short, you’ve ensured that you have the external resources to live out the rest of your life in comfort. So what have you missed?
Whether you are in the work world and want to stay competitive with your peers or you are planning for a fulfilling retirement, ensure you stay sharp. Maintain your brain!
Defending the Night Owl
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What time does your head habitually hit the pillow? Are you asleep right after the nightly news or still going strong in front of your computer during the wee hours? Can we choose whether to be a night owl or early riser, or is it something genetic that makes us predisposed to either hitting the sack before midnight or burning the oil till dawn?
While most folks are tucked into bed, I can often be found walking my dogs at midnight, cooking a meal or doing laundry at 1 a.m., or catching up on my emails at two in the morning. By the time I get to bed, it’s often 2:30 or 3 a.m., and I’m up by 7 or 8. Now this does catch up on me occasionally, and I find myself nodding off in my papassan in front of the TV, often with Diesel, our cattle dog, draped over my lap and one of the cats perched on my shoulder. But give me about 30 minutes of that, and I’m good to go into the early morn.
According to my friend Aaron’s blog, I can even pat myself on the back for being in a group of people who are generally healthier, wealthier, and wiser than the old adage suggests I should be. In fact, according to Aaron’s information, there is a genetic component – an “after hours” gene – that affirms my behaviour. It also explains why only one of my four children napped during infancy and toddlerhood for more than a few minutes a day.
Historically, sleep patterns were different from what they are today. People often woke up during the night, took care of some household chores, and then went back to sleep. So, some of us who are branded insomniacs may simply be abiding by an historic sleep pattern.
I enjoy the wee hours and find that some of my most creative moments arrive during the night. I relish a walk outside when the rest of the world is asleep, encountering night creatures in their wanderings, and there’s something wonderful about leaving food still hot on the stove for my husband when he comes home from work at 4 a.m. It’s also delightfully indulgent to sit in bed with my pets and a good book, reading until just before dawn breaks or writing the poetry that only comes when the brain is tripping gently between waking and dreaming.
So, if you have a child that refuses to nap, it may not be obstinance that keeps them wide-eyed but a genetic leaning toward wakefulness. I can recount many an afternoon of staring at the ceiling of my room during my “nap time” until I finally got permission from my mother to “wake up”. This poem by Robert Louis Stevenson, entitled “Bed in Summer”, spoke well my lament as a child of parents who believed in “sensible” bedtimes – a concept that often serves the parents more than it does the active, inquiring mind of a wakeful child:
- In winter I get up at night
- And dress by yellow candle-light.
- In summer quite the other way,
- I have to go to bed by day.
- I have to go to bed and see
- The birds still hopping on the tree,
- Or hear the grown-up people’s feet
- Still going past me in the street.
- And does it not seem hard to you,
- When all the sky is clear and blue,
- And I should like so much to play,
- To have to go to bed by day?
Digging Down to Find Your True Nature – The 8 of Pentacles
The Aquatic Tarot. Author/Artist: ©Andreas Schröter 1995-2002
Often, the thoughts we have during the day come in waves. At one moment, we may have clarity and realize our true potential. We experience the elation of knowing what we are and what we can achieve. At other moments, we get sucked down into the maelstrom of fear, worrying that we won’t be able to succeed in life, that we’ll be rendered helpless and alone.
The 8 of Pentacles is all about recognizing our true nature – our divinity – and holding that recognition before us like a flame that lights our way (you may see Olympic references here if you wish). It takes discipline to keep our eyes on that flame and not to get bogged down in darkness.
When I feel that sense of foreboding, it helps me to meditate, read inspiring books, and remember the guides and higher awareness that come to me in dreams to remind me of my divine beingness.
Apart from owning my place as a Being of Light, I have the added luxury as someone who works with energy fields of being able to see others as they appear as a light being.
What lies behind the outer appearance, you might ask? When you peer down through the layers to the core, we all look like stars. It’s incredibly humbling to observe others in their divine state, and it’s even more amazing to experience the energy of that state. It’s my wish that all people could see the world around them as it actually is. There would be more peace if we all recognized each other as holy. Hence, the reason for the greeting, “Namaste” – the divine in me salutes the divine in you.
In my courses on reading the human energy field, I provide my students with the opportunity to tune in on the various layers of the human energy field and to open to the experience of their divinity for themselves and in connection with others. It’s my wish that we drop our barriers and see that in essence we all are in a state of harmony. The disharmony we see is illusion. Working with the human energy field can help you to look past the illusion to what really lies beneath.
My next course begins January 17th. If you wish to sign up, please do so at www.tarotkingston.com. I look forward to seeing you there!
Honour your Creativity – The Nine of Wands
The Aquatic Tarot. Author/Artist: ©Andreas Schröter 1995-2002
Today’s tarot card warns us not to squander our creativity. The creative force is a natural energy running through all of us. By its nature, it seeks expression. When we neglect it, I believe we actually sacrifice our well-being.
Ask yourself how much of your stress is directly related to not doing something that you really want to do. Are you living your dreams or settling for what feels safe, secure and available?
When we answer our soul’s calling and find ways to express our creativity, we rediscover our personal power, our intuition, and our spontaneity. We find the child in us who sees all things as magical.
Ask yourself how you can be creative today. In small and large ways, seek to do what your soul desires. Be open to thinking outside the box and being silly and playful.
Sit quietly and ask yourself several times during the day what you’d really like to do in that moment and be open to the answer. Then, follow through as best you can. If you can’t give expression at that moment to your soul’s desire, make a list of steps to achieving it, and take the first step – even if that step is just researching scuba-diving schools on the Net during your coffee break.
As you take steps toward living your dreams, you give energy to meeting those goals. That energy frees up your path to take the next step, and the next. Before you know it, you’re doing what you’ve always wanted to do.
Take it from my friend, Susan Biali, a doctor who decided to become a flamenco dancer - and succeeded. It’s never too late to live your dreams. Just take a chance… and take that first step.








